2 years ago today I felt my life was falling apart. I was reeling from the news that I needed life-saving open-heart surgery. This came just 6 weeks after losing my job. All of a sudden the future felt very uncertain and scary. But, through my daily journalling routine, and
Walking is a superpower for boosting my mental well-being, energy levels and creativity. When I looked at my daily activity last year, I noticed a striking difference between my commuting and remote-working days (on some days, I was barely moving!). I realised my walking routine had slipped (which tallied my
Imposter syndrome wields enormous power when you aren't clear on your successes or proven abilities. It presents you with flawed evidence when taken at face value. Left unchecked, it can leave you paralysed, unable to progress and depriving the world of all you have to give. No more.
I suffered terribly from phone anxiety when I was younger. * my dad had to phone pretending to be me to arrange an interview for my Saturday job * I wrote convoluted "what-if?" scripts before making a call, feeling that I needed to be prepared for every eventuality * I would
My inner critic had created a suffocatingly negative view of the world for me. My world became smaller. Every question was an attempt to find me out as a fraud. I would be filled with self-doubt and avoid new opportunities. Three things helped me break free and start to discover
I've always found it difficult to accept compliments or gratitude from people. I would often reject, deflect or downplay it as I would feel uncomfortable with the attention or praise. My typical responses would look like this: * Nice meal: "Oh, it wasn't quite how I
Sharing a mental health story can be powerful, but it's important to consider the reasons behind it first.
I have fears of negative judgement when writing online. When this happens, I have one phrase I use that gives me confidence to publish.
People look to leaders and are quick to see what is expected through the actions around them. What influence are you exerting without realising?
Journalling using morning pages can help you to expose and manage your negative thoughts
Perfectionism can hold us back. It's not about quality but about fear.
In June 2019, I broke down in tears in the middle of a management team meeting during a peer feedback discussion. I struggled for years with depression and anxiety, without knowing or having a diagnosis. Despite being successful, I had a deeply negative self-image and viewed my world through that